Kim sadly chose to end his life on February 2nd 2020 in Santa Monica, California.

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He was born in Los Angeles California in 1966 and soon after his family relocated to his mother's home state of Utah, where he resided with his mother and sister for many years.

He graduated from the University of Utah in 1992 with a Bachelor's Degree in Political Science. His passion however, was his decades of education and training in pursuit of becoming a Sommelier, an expert in wines and spirits, earning him the title of Master of Wine (MW) within the WSET certification.

He traveled extensively building relationships and a client base with wineries, restauranteurs and other purveyors.

Kim was a force to be reckoned with. He lived his life authentically and without apologies. He walked through this world with grace, beauty, courage and an outward presentation of undeniable confidence but his internal dialogue spoke a different message. He faced many challenges and struggles to achieve personal and professional success, but some battles simply cannot be won.

He was preceded in death by his best friend and mother, Wendy Romney Hassibe. He is survived by his only sibling and sister, Amina Hassibe and her four children, his nieces and nephews. Braden Pratt Deters (Shauna Gowans), Cooper Deters (Ashlie Jones), Alexandria Deters (Jaxon Deters) and McKenzi Deters (Eric J. Larson). He is also survived by his great nephews and niece. Lucan Lewis Larson, Haven Dean Jones and Beretta Steele Deters.

Dear brother, you did not know how bright your light shined.

Family and What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. friends are encouraged to make a donation in Kims' name to suicide prevention or mental health awareness organizations.

If you or someone you love is struggling with depression, substance abuse, any mental disorder, thoughts of hurting yourself or thoughts of suicide please know that despite the noise in your head, YOU MATTER. Take a deep breath and reach out to someone, ANYONE. Isolation is not the answer. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. It can and WILL get better. In Kim's name and for your sake, speak your truth and let someone take your hand and guide you back to the light.

LIVE BRAVE ONE!

-National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at

1-800-273-8255

-SpeakingofSuicideLifeline.org

-National Institute of Mental Health

(NIMH) Crisis Text Line text “HELLO” to

741741

Life Story Info

Author

Amina Hassibe

Post Date

Feb 12, 2020

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53
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He was a good friend and a great guy. I wish we hadn't lost touch after college. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Cristofer Procinsky , Lutz, FL, US May 30, 2020

i didnt know him but felt like i do. i am sure he was very unique and special.

so sad i did not know him and his life was ended prematurely.

Viki , Perry, UT, US Mar 17, 2020

I went to High School with Kim, and I'll never forget his explosive laugh.

Rick , Issaquah, WA, US Mar 14, 2020

Thinking about you today and always. I love you, Kim, and I’ll always remember the great times we had at work and outside of the workplace. Thank you for being you and being nothing short of an awesome friend and brother.

Robert LuJane , Los Angeles, CA, US Mar 02, 2020

Amina, thank you for sharing... the event, the story, and your feelings. Big hugs, Genevieve Atwood with fond thoughts ever echoing those of Don Mabey.

Genevieve Atwood Feb 27, 2020

I only heard this tragic news just today, and it breaks my heart! Such a bright and promising man despite his internal conflicts. I started him on his career in wine as he was my assistant wine buyer for a number of years here in Utah before taking off on his own. We did not part on good terms, but Kim always knew I wished him the best in life. We lost touch years ago...yet it saddens me greatly that there might have been some small thing I or anyone could have done to prevent this.

Brett Clifford , Salt,Lake City, UT, US Feb 22, 2020

Amina - My heart breaks for your loss. I am so sorry to hear of this terrible tragedy. Know that you are in my thoughts! May you find some peace during this trying time. My love and light follow and find you!

Leah Adkins , Richmond, UT, US Feb 20, 2020

I had the pleasure of working with Kim while he was our wine broker in Utah. My memories of Kim were nothing but positive around business, and the good times we had while working together. As I reflect back upon my 40 years in the wine industry, I can honestly say the time I spent knowing and working with Kim were among my favorites.

Rick Hartwigsen , Southlake , TX, US Feb 19, 2020

I’m so sorry for you’re loss. Kim was a good friend at the U and Phi Delt house. We may not have seen eye to eye on many things, but that strengthened our friendship.

Michael Jarman , Redmond, OR, US Feb 16, 2020

You will be missed, my friend. As a student at Utah and frat brother to my son we got to know and enjoy your smile and grace. May you rest in peace.

charles floyd inman , HEBER CITY, UT, US Feb 16, 2020

So sorry to hear of Kim’s loss. He was such a great guy. I really looked up to him as a wide eyed Freshmen Phi Delt. Kim was the epitome of cool. In heaven there is rest.

Buff Harmston , Salt Lake City, UT, US Feb 16, 2020

My heart is broken and I can’t find the words to describe what you meant to me. I will hold our memories in my heart forever and I pray you have found peace. I will always love you.

Shaun Paddock , Roebuck , SC, US Feb 16, 2020

PLEASE NO. KIM???DAMN.

Shawn Webb , Los Angeles, CA, US Feb 12, 2020

Kim was my dear friend and mentor for a good amount of time we lost touch shortly before this tragic end but what he taught me will always be a part of me. love you kim

justin dicosola , los angeles, CA, US Feb 12, 2020

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